You may have a point. I just get a little annoyed anytime Stephen Fry's name comes up because he makes such a point to make certain everyone knows he's queer.
A piece of his message is true enough.
The problem is, the other parts of his message are completely odious and overshadow any merit the true parts had.
It is as if Stalin said: “Everyone needs to work hard.” So far, so good, everyone can get on board with that. Then he says in the next sentence: “If you cannot work, we will send you to a Gulag to be worked to death or executed outright. And that includes quad amputees, people with any severe mental impairment, etc...”