Coming from ancient laws, rape historically meant forced sexual acts involving physical contact. Only within the past few years does it now include consensual sex remorse, social revenge and shaming, even perceived intent from non sexual contact like a hug or a kiss on the cheek. OK That can be creepy at times, but my relatives never raped me when we got together at reunions.
And to further confuse the issue, rape doesn’t happen at all when it’s a rapefugee. That’s just a cultural exchange, no matter how brutal.