I understand your position.
I find it interesting that we are all agreed that men and women cannot compete equally and fairly in professional sports such as TENNIS and GOLF, but we are now saying that this doesn’t apply to the gravest of human activities, warfare, particularly ground combat? If speed, strength, power and endurance has any place at all it is there. Women will always generally be lesser in all those areas, and it is from the general population that replacements must be procured.
The few exceptions are not worth the logistical burden that their accommodation would require.