Is there any standup comedienne who hasn’t been raped? I don’t know, I’ve managed to live in NYC for 40 years, in and out of show business, in and out of horrible buildings and elevators, worked for sleazebags, but never managed to get raped, assaulted, mugged or hurt in any way.
Yet very damned comic has been sexually assaulted!
You probably had more sense than to get passed-out drunk with guys, find yourself in bed with a guy the next morning, and thus decide you were "raped".