I raised two boys. Love them both so much. Here’s the difference in a nutshell between the two. #1 would find a spider and carefully bring it to me so that after I repressed my hysteria we could both be amazed at its beauty. #2 would see a spider, step on it and say, “stupid bug.” #1 would hug everyone he encountered. #2 when asked for a hug would say, “I don’t have any hugs.” Guess which one is the IT guy and which one is the musician.
Number 2?