I’m saying no such thing, and you know that. I’m merely pointing out how much we do not know about the circumstances surrounding their life - not that I ever cared.
Go back into your safe space - you’ll be more comfortable there.
No offense, but unless someone else is posting replies using your handle, you DID post this, and the words you used DO slant in a definite direction:
“Ted and Heidi were apart for seven years, were they not? Both hold powerful positions where sex is plentiful and offered continually.
It would be hard to believe that neither Ted NOR Heidi refrained from, shall we say, extra curricular activities of a physical nature.
For all we know, they had an ‘understanding’, or even approved of extra marital affairs while apart.”
To my mind, that suggests a “swinging” arrangement. Maybe there’s a new name for it now.