People grieve in their own way. My family culture is very different. No way would I be posting every little tear and blue moment from myself and my children at a time like this. I am not there, so I can’t say what the right thing is.
My mother died from cancer that metasticized into a brain tumor. She was more or less comatose for 2 wks before she finally passed, her body shutting down. I too would never have thought about posting the ordeal anywhere. It was hard enough communicating what was happening to family that doesn’t live here. It was traumatic to me. Wish she had gone quicker.