Well, I’m in a similar boat. I already have people I need to care for and that takes up most of my resources. I’ll try to help others as best I can but on my own terms and within my means. I will not tolerate someone else forcing me to “help” someone else, at least not in the manner these people are demanding. It’s nothing short of extortion when you really look at it. “Help me by giving me what you have, or I’ll beat your brains out (or kill you).”
I just want to be left the heck alone. I don’t want to oppress anyone, to the contrary, I want to stay as far the heck away from them as possible so as to not oppress them with my white presence ( and to avoid being a victim of crime). I don’t want to hurt them, and I don’t especially want to help them. They don’t want help, they want a replay of history in which they are the slavemasters. They won’t recognise that they already play that role in a modern manner by having whites forced to sacrifice so many things merely due to their skin color, no other reason.