Cheap casual sex is so unfulfilling and disappointing.
I always thought it would be, so I’ve avoided it. Once I hit about 16 I became active, but I was never a part of the “hookup” crowd, and I always questioned the sanity of the people who were. I always followed the (I guess at this point, super-wholesome) pattern of meeting someone, going on some dates, and becoming official before anything happened.
I’ll never understand how people can just meet someone at a bar, or hotel, or on Tinder or whatever, and just sleep with them immediately. There’s so much more to it than simply “insert tab A into slot B”.
In 1962, I lost my virginity to an older woman...
(I was 12...She was 14...)
She seduced me....