Nero?
I knew Nero. Nero was a friend of mine. Oboma is no Nero!
Caligula?
Now THAT is a narcissic role model in ancient Rome!
Nero came in late one night; his wife asked him where he had been. He became enraged and kicked her to death; she was six months pregnant. The next day, he felt bad about it, so he went and found a teen age male prostitute who had an astonishing resemblance to the wife he had killed (they say). He castrated the male and married him. Made him wear a dress. The teenage boy was finally humiliated enough to commit suicide.