“I’ve had nothing but good results from the VA.”
I guess it depends on the facility, because there is surely a lot of evidence that overall, the VA has NOT given vets good healthcare. FWIW, my father was a WWII vet, and he received excellent care at the Palo Alto, CA Veterans Hospital. At the time, almost 40 years ago, they were allied with Stanford Medical Center and drew on that facility’s medical staff for cancer treatment. Unfortunately, my dad still died within two years of diagnosis, but the VA doctors at the time did all that they could.
sorry for your loss.