You had similar experiences, not the same ones.
Exactly. No one on earth has had the same experiences as me.
Could something have happened to me in my younger life that would have turned me gay? I seriously doubt it.
Could something have happened that would have turned my brother straight? I don’t think so.
What happened in your life that made you straight and not gay? At what point did you decide that you weren’t ever going to suck a penis?
It was never a decision for me.