Yup, my mother is a narcissist. Undiagnosed because of course, she is perfect.... but my sister and I have finally figured out what was so wrong with our childhood.
So sorry to hear this. I cannot imagine what it must be like to not have a mother who loves and cherishes you. It’s just so wrong.
Just curious:
Have you and your sister gone no contact?
Did she pit you and your sister against each other?
Is there another sibling who is the golden child?