how can one stay Catholic under all of this?...I’m struggling...haven’t been a regular church goer for several years but I yearn to be....but I just can’t support this stuff....
The sins of men are no reason to abandon the Truth. We are all sinners and Jesus Christ died for our sins, yours, mine and everyone else's. If He could endure scourging, crowning with thorns, carrying His cross, being crucified with nails through wrists and ankles to redeem anyone willing to accept that sacrifice, we can endure fools and idiots in high places and even molesters in the rectories. Jesus Christ promised to be with His Church to the very end of time on Earth. His promises are the most reliable ever made. The gates of hell will not prevail against us.
By attending Mass and receiving the Eucharist and having your sins formally forgiven, you are supporting Jesus Christ and His plan for you and not "this stuff." If you put a little money in the basket to defray the costs of Church building maintenance and the cost of heat and light, you are not supporting "this stuff." If you attend an unquestionably orthodox parish where the priests gladly obey their vows of celibacy, remember that Father has to eat. Don't be as concerned in other parishes.
May God bless you and yours and lead you back to faithful discipleship and His sacraments! You have free will. It is up to you, as it must be.
You can find a Church that adheres to the Pre-Vatican II tradition. I left the Novus Ordo about 8 months ago. My new Parish is conservative and a true God send, I am so grateful to God for leading me here. I pray and think of our Lord more than ever before, He is my First thought at rising, throughout the day and my last thought before sleep.I now look forward to mass, adoration and confession. I am even attending Catechism classes again..and I am in my 50’s!! I never left the church, the church left me. But I have rediscovered it now and I pray that many others find it as well. What a Blessing!