Just on a tangent, the other party in this case (i.e. the trans-whatever) is a total FREAK. Stephen Crowder once commented he had found some things on Carlotta Sklodowska’s FB page that were disturbing. I would agree completely. I can’t - and wouldn’t if I could - post the details here at FR. Suffice it to say, Sklodowska is a prostitute, who is also into some very icky things beside being a prostitute, and seems to get jollies from publicly sharing both. I can honestly say I sure as heck wouldn’t want to change around this freak, either.
Did you post on the correct thread?
OMG! I just read some of what he has written and now need eye bleach.