Exactly. I have people in my family like that (take offense at every little thing). Everyone avoids them as much as possible, and we notice they don’t have m/any friends and have a hard time holding down a job.
There is no reason to coddle such people. Coddling is how they got like that in the first place in most cases.
They are the busy-bodies of SJW that C.S. Lewis recognized.
“Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron’s cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.”