Baking a cake or doing the floral arrangements is a direct participation in the event. Printing the flyers does not indicate approval nor does it require acquiescence in the sentiments. It merely means one copies the flyers.
It sounds to me like the particular store she went to either had a manager or staffer who misunderstood his authority or was just plain anti-ProLife.
I will avoid them for a while. I will drop them a line and tell them why.
Anti pro-life? It is time to take back the language. I will now call abortion supporters pro Death.