Ugh, but constantly reading ongoing and continual debating about personal insults (as opposed to issues) and things of that sort certainly does put you on the whiny side of things. The lady doth protest too much about the protests.
When you find yourself arguing over nothing but personalities and about insults, take a deep breath and move on.
No not at all. You are the one who has initiated round-after-round the whine on the subject.
You are projecting. Look in the mirror lady.