Catherine, I did read it. But only the lists. I did not catch that part. Amazing isn’t it that what they want, they don’t heed, but making the conditions so.
I used to tell my friends that were aggressive with men: there will be a time when he is used to you pulling all the night moves and then you will be weary and unromanced and desired. Then what? All for naught.
You make a good point that I never thought of, and one that never entered into my arguments with my friends. It’s true, though.
The sexes are different. I don’t like game-playing, but I think men enjoy the chase—as long as they know the woman is interested-—and women enjoy being pursued.