As someone whose parents survived the Holocaust I can’t blame the Serbs for not wanting to be ruled by Croatians, Slovenians or Muslims who were allies of the Nazis and resurrected many of the WW2 govt symbols when they declared their independence from Yugoslavia. Plus of course the Bosnian Muslims were allied with al-Qaeda - I think a couple of the 9/11 hijackers were veterans of those jihadi companies in Bosnia. Just saw it on the BBC documentary a couple of weeks ago when it aired (or was that last month?).
Yes, the Serbs were mistreated, especially by the Croats. That wasn’t the subject though. The Serbs wanted to mistreat the Croats, Slovenians, and the Muslims. And they were mistreating them. I would think that you would understand that since you’re a Holocaust survivor.