At the risk of being banned:
Just shut the hell up. You don’t have a clue, even a tiny part of a clue, what your life would like if you were in the same position as these guys are. They do it every day, they live it, they can’t run home to their big, brave husband, “Honey, that bad man made me cry. Go beat him up.” You are a silly, whiney twit. (In case you are also a feminist the word “twit” has no gender or sexual connotation).
Just shut up until you have a frame of reference.
“Just shut the hell up.”
The irony of your comment is that the exact last time I heard that said to me it came from a Sacramento County Deputy Sheriff when I told him he needed a warrant as he literally broke down my mother’s apartment door.
Now I live in Wyoming and the wonderful Park County Sheriff’s Department have shown me what it means to have people who enforce the law and who also protect the Constitution.
That’s my ‘frame of reference’. See, you never really understand how bad you have it until you have it GOOD.