Oops; I thought you said you didn’t post to me unless I posted to you. And iirc, there was a whiney list of reasons for your lofty protocol.
News flash: I didn’t post to you.
Looks like you need to, ahem, clarify some truth. Lol.
2. You're talking directly about me (and not in a polite way). The protocol never entailed ignoring posts you make about me. (That should be obvious) I'm told there is a general practice on FR to ping a person when speaking about him/her. Both you and DL habitually ignore that, so all bets are off, so to speak.
Now, go try to help your hapless companion.