I am fed up with wacko intorerant libs and brain washed younger people telling me I hate homosexuals, want them to die, that I’m a mean and ugly person, a bigot who should be publicly flogged, blah blah blah simply because I believe marriage is male/female. There is no linkage.
Because I have a gay friend or family member doesn’t mean I have be in favor of it anymore than my being against it means I have an animus towards them.
The left, with the help of the media, has successfully linked many things which are not connected in their smear campaign against anyone that doesn’t toe their ideological line.
You should get into a debate on the motives for the civil war. The left aren't the only ones.