Have you ever personally witnessed a gay party? Their behavior is utterly disgusting. Given the choice, I would avoid it like the plague.
Yes many
No debauchery just folks eating food making jokes and having fun
And yet you appear to have been to a bunch of them since you seem to be speaking from experience.
One Friday in the Fall of 1978 Six Flags Magic Mountain (which used-to rent the park out for private parties of mega-organizations during the off-season) had a "Gay Night" where the attendees bought their tickets from local organizations and the park was otherwise close to the public on Fridays that time of year. When the gates opened 20,000 wild-eyed crazed adults came running through the gates screaming, and it went down hill from there. At the time I was working in souvenir stores, so I didn't get to see as many of the "sites" that the ride operators and the restroom-maintenance people saw. Suffice it to say those are tales best left untold after all these years. I was 17 at the time, but the events of that night indelibly burned into my consciousness everything anyone needs to know about these mentally disturbed people and what they are all about.