This is the ugly thing about the Internet.
Now when anyone falls into the public eye for some transgression they have to be totally destroyed. Anyone who defends them also has to be totally destroyed. Say you wouldn’t cater a gay wedding and have your livelihood destroyed.
It is a very sick world.
You are right. I feel sorry for the family....including the son who really messed up.
Everyone messes up, perhaps not so badly, perhaps worse. This is why we have forgiveness and grace, but the world does not understand this.