The sodomite lifestyle is not the kind of sin someone commits and says “Oops, I’m sorry”, is repentant, and asks for forgiveness. It’s on-going, unrepentant sin.
Maybe it’s because I’m a fundamentalist separatist (as in “come out from among them and be ye separate”), but I’ve made it to over 50 yo without being able to count any acknowledged, or to the best of my knowledge, any closeted, sodomites, amongst the people with whom I socialise.
Then you’re among the “probably few” I referred to. I’ve certainly known some and frankly my main reaction has been pity. That lifestyle is anything but “gay”.