Exactly. Compare ‘prison gay’ to ‘LUGs’. As soon as the environment enables a reversion to normal behavior, they walk away from homosexual encounters.
I think there might be a “chemical” abnormality, maybe even occurring in utero. I mean we all know “gays” that are gentle little creative people.
Clearly, it’s more complex than what I or Ben Carson may say, but whatever it might be the gay lobby has taken “medical science” off the case, and you have people like your son who have something inherent and those johnny come latelys that have something that is chosen.