All the sites are the same ... in that they ALL are controlled and NO ONE can go on ANY of those websites or forums and get any “free speech” other than what the owner allows!
Now what you are saying is that ... “Everyone has free speech in their own living room” ... LOL ...
OF COURSE everyone has free speech in THEIR OWN LIVING ROOM ... but on the Internet there is NO PLACE where EVERYONE get free speech, as there would be in “real life” where there are “public spaces” for free speech for anyone and everyone. There’s the difference. But, that’s the nature of the Internet, and as I said, I don’t have problem with owners of websites CONTROLLING their own property.