Feminism gone wild: fatherless girls always go for the thrills and the bad boys, and spurn the nice guys who could provide a steady life. Writ large...
The “manosphere” has a phrase for that:
“Alpha fux and Beta bucks”
(in their youth they go for all the bad boys, then when they are older and used up, they try to secure the boring, responsible guy with the decent job and money, usually demanding MORE from the beta despite that they gave it away for free to the alpha when they were in their prime)