Men’s “need” for sex is abominable to me. I have read so many articles that why men marry is for the sex. What about building a family, a home base? No. Don’t care. It’s all about the sex and if this is true, the jerks in college don’t mind just taking it if it is not freely given.
Men aren’t the same as women. Big shock, I know.
Men are considerably more hardwired to go after sex than women. Most men control it most of the time, and I think they should get some credit for that.
Sure it’s shallow and a not entirely good aspect of manhood. But then a great many women are equally shallow, though usually in different ways.
But like any other drive, what should be concentrated on is focusing that drive in the right direction, not just telling men they’re bad for feeling it.
In my rather limited experience, most women, especially wives, spend a great deal of their time being mad at men for not being women.
The sex drive can be focused to support the family and the home, not endanger it. But not by a wife who resents her husband’s drives.
BTW, 1/3 might be a little high, but I wouldn’t be surprised if the real number isn’t somewhere close to that. Not among college men, but among the population as a whole. At least if you ask only young men.
In support of this position, I present the morons who rape a woman, or ten of them beat up some people. They video it and post it online. They’re not only not ashamed of it, they’re proud of it.
I must admit I simply cannot comprehend such a mindset. If I were really, really drunk and running with the wrong crowd, I can just barely see myself doing something similar. But I for dang sure would be utterly ashamed of myself the next day and would never want anyone to know I was involved.
Just...WOW.