I got no problem letting him go.
It’s for his own good.
The faster he finds his bottom, the sooner he squares his life away.
BTW, I’m an ALANON Alumni.
Been at it 30 years and been going quite a bit these last 5.
Not interested in going anymore.
It’s not like everyone doesn’t know what to do.
“Just rip that friggin bandaid off and let the healing begin”.
Adios Muchachos.
No more interruptions.
I want my mife back to what it use to be and unencumbered by some mommies boy.
Maybe in fact your life will be better, if different... but our lives rightfully belong to God.
God probably doesn’t want a maniac hanging on the bus of your life because then you can’t do much good with it. But wait on God to see where He points you. Maybe the old laddie WILL crash and be forced into knowing he needs to let God into his life too, through means that all the scolding in the world never could have orchestrated. Or he could end up killing himself which is sad to see but it was by his will if he is a legal adult.
....”mommies boy”....
Yes...and that is the problem as much as he is. Moms have an enormous capacity to love their kids no matter what....but I had to learn even moms can have their limit when God is ready to deal with their children....after all they are His first...
I had to learn my son was lying to me....which hurt greatly....but that woke me up as well....time to let go.