“...I’m trying to figure this out. My 2nd wife’s sister has a mixed child. No support. My current girlfriends daughter has a mixed baby. No support. I could go on but these just happen to be the two closest.”
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This is a near universal outcome, and that is a fact. The ex-boyfriend “baby daddies” think they have no obligation to financially support the “souvenir” they left with the gullible white girls and, unfortunately, I think many judges are quite baby daddy lenient in such cases.
And it is also a sad fact that the gullible girls who have such a souvenir in their care have substantially reduced the universe of responsible white men who would want to be a new husband in this situation. Folks may think this is a mean thing to say, but it is the truth.
All the time I drive by projects and through urban areas on the way to and from work. I see the white girls pushing their caramel-dipped cuties in strollers. It’s not the child’s fault, granted, but rarely do I see a man with them.
“And it is also a sad fact that the gullible girls who have such a souvenir in their care have substantially reduced the universe of responsible white men who would want to be a new husband in this situation. Folks may think this is a mean thing to say, but it is the truth.”
My sister in law found this out. She was dating this guy and when he met the mixed child(she was about 12 at the time) she told him the girl was Puerto Rican. I swear. Wasn’t up to me to tell him different.