Some were, some were not that bad but chose the job path and put off marriage.
The one that makes me sad is a sweet girl who would have married in college, but was talked out of it by her mother. See, Engineers shouldn’t marry young. She is now 40, and will probably never marry.
It honestly makes me sad. I knew them 15-20 years ago, and they put forth some effort to find me and send me a random email. Some of these girls were good friends of mine, and they all are broken in some way, shape, or form.
Mostly broken by the expectation given to them by leftists I would bet.