This irritates me to no end. They don't want a conversation. A conversation is when 2 partys have a common discussion, it is a 2-way communication. What they want is to tell you their demands and how you are going to comply, submit, and admit guilt for whatever it is they accuse you of. They want you to admit that your success is the cause of their failure and that you don't deserve what you have worked for. They want you to bear guilt for your successes. They want you to agree that by simply being born, they are entitled to the same things in life that you have for yourself and family... without the responsibilities. They want your way of life, but they want it given to them, even if that requires YOU giving them YOURS. Ultimately, they don't even understand that most of the things we list as a success aren't even monetary. It's called God, family, ethics, decency, and the ability to actually co-exist with others who leave us the hell alone... not just just slapping the bumper sticker on our cars. this conversation will never happen because they simply do not understand the priority of those core values... these aren't things that their government nannys can take from one and give to another.
Let's assume that is true for the moment. Further, we posit that they have what I have. The question remains, do they have the skills and motivation to KEEP what I have. Because it requires ongoing effort to get and KEEP it going. The house needs to be kept up. Cars need maintenance, all od which costs money which I get by going to WORK everyday. And therein lies the rub. They don't want to work at it or anything else. We need to understand that Blacks have a median IQ of 80, and that is 20 points below the median for everyone else. The median says that 50% are above, but 50% are below.