Huh? I’ve been told New Yorkers are so congenial and accommodating.
You should try visiting (but I don’t recommend it if you like having money in your bank account, don’t like jerks, don’t like cold weather, don’t like bad public transportation, don’t like other tourists that stop in the middle of the sidewalk to take pictures, etc etc). The only thing I can recommend is the food. There’s too many restaurants to count, and you probably couldn’t eat at them all in 30 years. There’s the ridiculously expensive Il Mulino’s, but I wouldn’t recommend it.