Obviously the parents lost this one. So, in their shoes, I’d come up with 26K to pay for the remaining 2 or so years and provide her a copy of my will which has her excluded to get anything except the paper lining the bird cage if I had one.
She is demanding $26k/yr for out of state tuition. Local NJ state college is $5.5k/yr. I'd pay for that, either that or move to another FREE state and tell the NJ commies to go pound sand.....judgement or not. Appeal, sell home, move away, disinherit daughter. Allow her to visit on Thanksgiving/Christmas only, and attend her wedding and birth of children. No gifts.
Any child that sues her parents gets NOTHING. Love and affection, yes, money no.