do not use the word gay to refer to the reality of homosexual desires or you give way to the confiscation of a good word but instead refer to those who have such desires as homosexuals
all marriages are gay events between man and woman
we’ve been using that word that way for the better part of a 100 years I think a word has the meaning people proscribe it and that only changes when the speaker clarify.
Uses the word gay however you want but if you want to change its meaning back to the old one be sure to clarify yourself.
I do agree thou Homosexuality is not neally the happiness form of Gay and i think its best to keep those misleading ideas separate.