Young men ages 13-35 are hard wired to procreate with women they find attractive. This biological reality is very politically incorrect but true nevertheless.
Although the desire to procreate, as you put it, is “hard wired”, raping a woman simply because you want to have sex is not only abhorrent, it is also criminal. Condoning thus behavior under the guise of “sowing wild oats” is contributing to sexual crimes against women.