Agreed. But until something changes wrt your last paragraph, we need to rely on the courts.
Does it suck? Yes. Is it frought with risks. Yes. But apart from taking up arms and dealing with sort of thing by the business end of a rifle barrel (and we arent anywhere near that point) there aren’t many other options.
I still believe that in many, if not most, cases this could be curtailed by a concerted effort of local parents. For a little while longer, anyway.
I do think that the longer it goes on, the closer it gets to the point were physical (and potentially violent) action becomes necessary. Always better to avoid letting things deteriorate that much.