Whoa...whoa...WHOA! "Fault" is one thing but I,a guy,would think that there'd be "warning signs" for a wife.I mean,it's one thing for a woman to say "I'm too tired" but when the husband says it night after night...
It's not like that. First, you appear to have accepted the gay propaganda that homosexuals are born that way, and absolutely cannot function as heterosexuals. Neither of those things is true. No one is born gay. And most people who practice homosexual sex also have sex with straights, some more than others.
Those on the thread trying to blame the woman are naive. And obviously you are unaware of the numbers of men in your own circle of acquaintances over your lifetime who are "on the down low" with behaviors they are ashamed of or do not wish to reveal. Some, it was a few experiments during school days, Others, once in awhile over the years. Still others have been switch-hitting all their adult lives, and lying about it.