You vastly oversimplify.
I have personally been closely acquainted with women in similar situations. Not with the kids being treated this way, thankfully.
In neither case could the woman have foreseen something like this happening.
“I have personally been closely acquainted with women in similar situations. “
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I know 2 women who had this happen.
One I worked with years ago—and one who now lives in my neighborhood.
These ladies are doing quite well——kids grown.
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My niece was taken by her first husband. He was wealthy and spent lots of money in her. My mom loved him because he wrote her a thank you note after visiting her, and he had the best manners.
2 months after they were married, my niece walked in on him with another woman. He had been sleeping around on her before the marriage.
His mom was a big democrat judge in Texas, so can’t say I was surprised.
I only met him at the wedding, and I was not taken with him. The wedding was very expensive and showy.
My parents never liked my husband until after what happened to my niece. My hubby is not flashy and smooth, and he’s quiet. Of course, we’ve been married over 20 years.