” Some men I believe use the being gay as an out just like some use transexuality. They are cowards and being gay lets them feel arrogant and get pity concerning their cheating because well its not their fault because they are “gay” as if that is any different than any other bad sexual decision.”
They are just men who have given them selves over to their lust so much that now a woman can no long give them what they desire. Now they have to go to another man who is as lustful as they are. That is what being a homosexual man is all about..lust. The women, kinda different, a lot of them were sexually abuse, raped, some how damaged sometime in their lives and can no long relate to a man. Same thing applies with some men who were sexually abuse as well and it tipped their moral compass. With a lot of men however it is lust.
I think you have it right. What makes me angry is its not as if most men don’t have struggles with lust. The idea that one must affirm sexual desires or any desire or else suffer harm is not just anti biblical but anti what I see as simply being a decent human being.