The worst thing is what this guy is doing to his kids. For that, he deserves nothing but contempt. Most Likely, he will be a dead queer by his 40s.
Dead homosexual, you mean. They enjoy when we call them queer and gay, but they hate the word homosexual, because then the brain understands that word meaning in a different way than the other two words. I try hard not to use the words they approve of.