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My husband divorced me for his gay lover - then took our children
LifeSiteNews ^ | 9/29/14 | by Janna Darnelle

Posted on 09/29/2014 9:50:01 AM PDT by wagglebee

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To: Buckeye McFrog
I must say that it is EXTRAORDINARILY RARE for judges in these cases to NOT award custody to the woman.

Based on what? Can you give a citation with accurate statistics? Judges can do anything they want. In big cities, you will find specialty law firms to handle divorce cases involving professional men who are wealthy and will do anything to destroy their former wives so they can take the children and go off with their new partner, whether male or female. Is this because they want the children? Often, no. They just want to reduce the amount of child support they must pay; or they want to destroy the ex because she is the proof of their betrayal and guilt.

The article says her ex and his gay partner both make more money than she does. It wouldn't surprise me if he were a lawyer, doctor, executive or accountant.

121 posted on 09/29/2014 12:25:16 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: Alter Kaker
I actually agree with you. But the ex husband in this article doesn't appear to have been cheating on her -- which he could have done -- he simply divorced her.

Are you sure you read the same article as the rest of us? If he hadn't been cheating, how come he suddenly "decided" he was gay? He was probably having anonymous encounters in gay bars and men's rooms for years, which is why he never left before. But then he Met Somebody... who talked him into dumping his family and going whole hog into depravity.

122 posted on 09/29/2014 12:30:11 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: Gay State Conservative
I,a guy,would think that there'd be "warning signs" for a wife.I mean,it's one thing for a woman to say "I'm too tired" but when the husband says it night after night...

It's not like that. First, you appear to have accepted the gay propaganda that homosexuals are born that way, and absolutely cannot function as heterosexuals. Neither of those things is true. No one is born gay. And most people who practice homosexual sex also have sex with straights, some more than others.

Those on the thread trying to blame the woman are naive. And obviously you are unaware of the numbers of men in your own circle of acquaintances over your lifetime who are "on the down low" with behaviors they are ashamed of or do not wish to reveal. Some, it was a few experiments during school days, Others, once in awhile over the years. Still others have been switch-hitting all their adult lives, and lying about it.

123 posted on 09/29/2014 12:38:05 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: George from New England
In ten years this guy got perverted by the MSM and society. I’ll guarantee that when they married ten years ago he was straight as an arrow. LGBT is surrounding and tempting all of us.

I disagree; I think he always had struggles with thoughts, but managed to push them away, believed marriage to a woman would "cure" him, or had guilt about his thoughts, started having a few encounters after the honeymoon ore off and kept his escapades in men's rooms secret until the gay propaganda and gay marriage legalizations started up. I seriously doubt he was straight as an arrow; rather, he may have had childhood abuse issues or teenage experimentation that was later fueled by increasing access to porn on the Internet.

124 posted on 09/29/2014 12:48:39 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: Mears
I just want to scream,”Shut up lady,life isn’t fair——move on”

Her children are still young and in their formative years, and they come to her with the disturbing images and scenes they are witnessing every time they are with their father, by court order, and you think she should have moved on by now? What is wrong with your thinking here?

125 posted on 09/29/2014 12:53:13 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: Mears
I just want to scream,”Shut up lady,life isn’t fair——move on”

Her children are still young and in their formative years, and they come to her with the disturbing images and scenes they are witnessing every time they are with their father, by court order, and you think she should have moved on by now? What is wrong with your thinking here?

126 posted on 09/29/2014 12:53:13 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: manc

I dismissed myself after reading a few. Keep up your posts and share whenever you can. This was not a speculation, it was an actual outcome and much can be extrapolated from it.


127 posted on 09/29/2014 12:57:48 PM PDT by lulu16 (May the Good Lord take a liking to you!)
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To: Albion Wilde

“What is wrong with your thinking here?”

I’m insane.

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128 posted on 09/29/2014 12:57:57 PM PDT by Mears
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To: EagleUSA

LOL!!!


129 posted on 09/29/2014 12:58:26 PM PDT by Osage Orange (I have strong feelings about gun control. If there's a gun around, I want to be controlling it.)
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To: Albion Wilde

Thanks for your thoughtful posts on this thread.


130 posted on 09/29/2014 1:00:50 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: riri; George from New England
"LGBT is surrounding and tempting all of us."

I dunno, it's not very tempting, for me anyway, to be surrounded by misfits, weirdos, psychos and freaks.


What it is doing is desensitizing us. It is in every television show and print media every day. I believe George from New England may be saying that it is tempting us not to care about it any more and not to react to it.

And in that sense, the gay lobby has been sucessful. Even when states have voted against gay marriage by clear margins, the voice of the people has been overturned and silenced by liberal judges. Gay militancy is making most of us think about things we never, ever wanted to hear about or know about, if only so that we can answer our kids' questions from their politically correct school indoctrination.

131 posted on 09/29/2014 1:00:56 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: Organic Panic
This is not a new phenomenon unfortunately. I have seen many instances of a female leaving a man to live with a lesbian lover and take the kids and get all the benefits of generous alimony.

I agree; just as harmful to the kids and devastating to the abandoned spouse.

132 posted on 09/29/2014 1:02:50 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (S.I.N. = Systematic Inversion of Norms)
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To: tbw2

“Human Resources Departments” such as you describe here more than amply demonstrate that they are nothing other than the lifestyle revolutionaries’ nose inside Corporate America’s tent. Ban them federally by regulations issued by the Labor Department. If we do not ban them, then the HR departments will soon be running political re-education camps to eliminate all but the politically correct from their jobs and income.


133 posted on 09/29/2014 1:17:52 PM PDT by BlackElk (Dean of Discipline Tomas de Torquemada Gentlemen's Club: Roast 'em Danno!)
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To: dfwgator

Wallow in it...hell yeah!


134 posted on 09/29/2014 1:37:49 PM PDT by wardaddy (Ferguson MO...but i thought blacks went north to escape the racism of mean ol southerners)
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To: JimRed
I don't think there's even "homosexual," -- not,anyway,in the sense of a permanent exclusive state, let alone an "identity."

The percentage of men who are simply incapable of copulating with a female is very, very low. Such men should not marry women, and cannot, since if they cannot successfully complete an act of "vaginal" intercourse, the marriage is null under both civil and canon law. Meaning, there is in reality no marriage.

Any man who vows himself for life to one woman and then gives himself to a different partner, man, woman or dog, is an adulterer, no matter what the LGBT Bacon-Lettuce-and-Tomato commentariat says, an no matter whether there was a divorce or not. He's a liar and a vow-breaker. That's the "identity" he's taken upon himself --- the one that really matters.

135 posted on 09/29/2014 1:53:51 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Point of clarification.)
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To: Alter Kaker

People who become “gay” have a delusion that overcomes them. Sad.


136 posted on 09/29/2014 2:00:03 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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To: EagleUSA

I seriously doubt if there was anything “LATENT” about this husband. And it never should have been tolerated for as long as it obviously was. Lots of things wrong here if the facts are correct.

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You assume too much. Delusional disorders occur with all sorts of people at all sorts of ages.


137 posted on 09/29/2014 2:01:54 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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To: Gay State Conservative

I’ve often wondered how pervert males “father” children in the first place.Not in my most desperate,depraved moment could I “perform” with anyone but an adult human who has two “X” chromosomes.One would think the opposite would be true with pervert males...and yet children often appear.
Am I missing something here?

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If you were delusional you could. If you thought you were a horse, you would love horses.


138 posted on 09/29/2014 2:04:18 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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To: from occupied ga

It is very unusual for the father to get custody of the offspring. Sometimes it’s because the mother is a junkie or something similar. I wonder WHY the husband got custody and what pertinent facts she’s leaving out.

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I don’t know about in your area but in some states the leaving spouse who remarries and has a new spouse at home wins the case. Especially if the new couple is wealthier and has better lawyers. I have seen two cases where solid women lost primary custody to the husband and new wife...and had to pay child support.

The law is not fair. The law is not just. The law is only enforced.


139 posted on 09/29/2014 2:10:00 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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To: Alter Kaker

Well what’s ridiculous about her argument is that she believes that the problem is that this guy was able to run off and shack up with another guy — not that she married a gay guy. It would have been better to stay in a sham of a marriage and have them both miserable? Homosexual men shouldn’t marry women, and women shouldn’t marry homosexual men. That way, everyone is happy.

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Why would you think that she would marry a homosexual guy? Men sometimes lie. Perhaps you hadn’t heard.


140 posted on 09/29/2014 2:11:43 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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