All credit to my two lovely aunts, but I also think the time and place was different. My older aunt, it was still the day of little white gloves, lol.
My “aunt” was Aunt Essie! She was an absolute rock of discipline, in her faith, in her work, in her marriage, in her talk (never even said darn I don’t think), in the cleanliness of her house and so on and so on! She had no idea what a role model she was to some 30 odd nieces, nephews, sisters, brothers, grand nieces and nephews and so on! We lost her a couple years ago and in the mail comes a 30k check that went out to all her nieces and nephews. Amazing! None of us ever thought even one moment about getting a dime from her!