Anectdotal and surely not representative. My ex was a violent bitch. I would never let her hit me and would many times have to restrain her, though I will say I did see my first flying saucer while with her. BTW, I never hit her.
The final straw came when she shot and killed her boyfriend in my kitchen while I was at work. Not sure how she got in as I had already thrown her out. Over the years, she has done time for assaulting a police officer, stabbing her latest boyfriend, who BTW, later died of suspicious circumstances.
Anyway, I’ve been happily single since about 1990. I raised all 4 of my kids myself. Put them thru private school. All is good, but I not sure I want to take another chance at marriage.
“The final straw came when she shot and killed her boyfriend in my kitchen while I was at work.”
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Maybe you attract the “crazies” lol
I have a friend like that. He’s very charismatic...ladies love him but he always picks the wrong one. One of them had some “heavies” come to his apartment to beat him up (because he broke up with her), except he wasn’t there and they knew his roommate...so they decided against it and had some beers when he came home. She then moved in with a house of lesbians and subsequently burned the house down.
...he’s had many like this and doesn’t understand it. Thing is, everyone else can see it coming, weird.
You probably have better judgment now, as to selecting a potential wife.