Well... the young women do not realize that even if “nothing happens” does not mean that there was not evidence of malice irresponsibility in the other party who never would care for anyone or how the grapes they eat were grown.
Psychology loops around that way. That very hidden heinous thought while having sex is what affects them to accept it or confuse them at best.
In fact, a potential girlfriend of mine got enraged when I told her there was a difference between of appreciation between the drunk who breaks the bottles in the cellar and the monks tending and making and tasting the wine.
At the time I had no idea why she was so enraged by me suggesting a monk like contract of relationship that was caring. No, to her the hero was the drunk, the one to humanely forgive. The monk model was condemned and burned at the stake. She had prior admited to me that she was dating a 25 year old when she was 13 or 14 in South America. She then said she broke up with him and he was jealous... but he was the one neglecting and pushing her away obviously and wanted this to happen.
The pimp calculates that curse.
I guess. But I wasn’t talking about when nothing happens. I’m talking about when a lot of stuff happens.
Now, I’m guessing here...but I don’t believe it when your potential girlfriend was 13 years old and was seeing a 25 year old that nothing happened. And it probably scarred her for life. And the cycle continues. And I do believe it affects women/girls more than boys. And possibly explain all of the women I know that are walking around with snakes-in-their-heads.
In the end, weather you are a “monk” or a “drunk”, with these damaged souls sooner or later you are going to be on the losing end. Trust me on this.....