Put down the caps lock and take a deep breath. I'll try to help you out.
"Conservative" is a philosophy of government, as is "Statist". "Democrat" is a Political Party, as is "Republican". Screaming with all caps "DEMOCRATS ARE FOR KILLING INNOCENT BABIES and GAY EVERYTHING and AMERICA DESTROYED!!!!" is both inaccurate and painting with a rather broad brush. There are Republicans who support the same thing. Yes, I'm afraid it's true.
You can have a "Conservative" Republican, and although they are rare, you can actually have a "Conservative" Democrat. Yes, I'm afraid it's true.
The vast majority of Democrats nowadays are Statists. Too high a number of Republicans in Washington are Statists, and they wield the reigns of power in the Party, although their influence is slowly waning. They infest Free Republic with posts trying to goad people into supporting their Statist candidates, when in fact what Conservatives of all stripes should be doing is firing all Statists.
Conservatives are in for the long haul, not short-term gains. Our efforts will probably take several election cycles. Trying to frighten us by saying things like "there won't be an America if we don't hold our noses and vote for...[fill in the Statist Republican Candidate]" won't work with us. Sorry, no sale - but hey, you go ahead and do it (we're for personal responsibility, so it's your choice - just don't tell us what to do; only Statists are into groupthink).
Now, before reaching once more for the Caps lock key, try to think through what I just typed.
idiocy.....no caps.....