Part of the problem is the Phony Christian Churches that bend to the desires of the society instead of bending society to the desires of God.
That is a problem, but look at the marriage rates in the Roman Catholic church for example.
You can claim many things, but they have been pretty serious about marriage. Yet Catholics are not getting married.
In my own synod (the LCMS), we are also very strict about marriage.
The issue is that people are not caring. Many would rather leave the church.
As far as I can see, the phony churches won’t even perform ‘gay marriage’ until the state they happen to be in also agrees with them. That’s a result of being conditioned to think the state actually defines marriage, to the point that even though these wackadoos think it is theologically possible and a civil right they still won’t perform ‘gay marriages’ until the state pats them on the head and tells them it is OK.
Freegards