I'm not 'uncomfortable,' deeply or otherwise.
I have the apparently now-rare ability to discern between things, people, concepts, etc. Marriage has had a definition since the dawn of man. It is based in biology, common sense, history and functionality vis-a-vis civilization. If you are religious, that's even more reinforcement, perhaps the most significant kind.
We don't enter dogs in the Kentucky Derby for a simple reason: they aren't horses.
Marriage is, was and always will be an institution wrapped around a practicality - not an impracticality designed to destroy the institution to which it claims to seek access.
Like the old saw about the most dangerous assassin being the one who doesn't know he's an assassin, gays have been taken in completely by power-hungry statists and their constant attempts to undermine free societies.
Gays are so desperate for what they mistakenly perceive to be approval, acceptance, recognition, and even praise that they will gladly participate in the destruction of that which gave them the freedom to 'be themselves' in the first place. While they rail against sodomy laws in certain states or localities they ignore the categorical bans that exist - and are rigidly enforced - in Islamic or communist nations.
Politicians and judges have abdicated their role as representatives of the people and keepers of the law, respectively. We now hear all manner of nonsense about equality - despite the self-evident inequality between real marriage and the fake version. We also hear about 'not standing in the way of love.' But have these government officials read their own document i.e. a marriage license/certificate? The word 'love' does not appear - for it's strictly a legal instrument - which means, of course, that the politicians are willingly promulgating a falsehood, having succumbed to vanity and cowardice (again).
And so, they have their pitiful, awkward, painfully forced ceremonies with confusing, pointless and derivative husband/husband and wife/wife designations. Even worse is the choice of partner/partner - empty, sterile, meaningless titles that evoke law firms and funeral homes, not marriage and family.
Which is why.. no matter how they try to paint it.. the whole concept of "gay marriage" is a false one. They can try to go through the motions and buy all the trappings.. but it will never.. EVER reach the level of a traditional event.